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Scenario

How Competitive Gifted Education Teaches Conditional Love

My parents pulled me out of public school for being too advanced and put me in a competitive gifted program where I learned that love is conditional on achievement and I am thirty-eight and still cannot accept affection without earning it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

High-pressure academic environments have conflated personal worth with intellectual performance.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Gifted education and its discontents?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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