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When Someone Learning Your Language Creates Unexpected Distance

My partner learned my language to connect with me but hearing my mother tongue in their accent makes me feel more distant.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Well-intentioned linguistic bridge-building can sometimes highlight rather than dissolve cultural differences.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Multilingualism and its gifts?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.