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How to Stop Self-Destructive Behaviors After Loss

My partner left me six months ago and I still check their social media obsessively every night knowing it only makes me feel worse.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Compulsive seeking behaviors are being driven by an attachment system that has not yet accepted the reality of separation.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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