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Scenario

When you shut down during conflict and can't explain why

My partner says I shut down during arguments but from inside it feels like I am drowning and cannot reach the surface to speak.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The nervous system's protective withdrawal can feel like emotional death to those watching from the outside.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Polyvagal theory in practice?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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