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How to stop anxious monitoring in relationships

My partner says they love me but I check their phone every day and analyze every text message delay because I am certain they will abandon me like everyone else has.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Hypervigilance born from early abandonment wounds transforms love into a constant threat assessment.

Ideas that help explain it
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