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When your child's dysregulation triggers your own trauma

My teenage daughter's mood swings send my nervous system into complete chaos and I cannot be the calm parent I want to be.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Parental nervous systems can become entrained with their children's emotional states, especially when the child's distress activates the parent's own unresolved attachment wounds.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Nervous system regulation?”

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