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How secure childhoods can still create attachment wounds

My therapist says I have abandonment issues but my parents were loving and present, so I do not understand why I panic when people do not text back immediately.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Attachment patterns form through countless micro-interactions, not just major trauma, and even good-enough parenting can leave gaps.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment theory — complete guide?”

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