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Why self-compassion practices can initially intensify self-criticism

My therapist says I need to practice self-compassion but every time I try to be gentle with myself it feels fake and my inner critic gets even louder and meaner.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Attempts to override established patterns of self-judgment often trigger defensive strengthening of the critical voice until deeper acceptance emerges.

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