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Scenario

When emotional validation conflicts with relationship survival

My therapist says to validate my emotions but when I feel anything other than happiness my husband gets upset and I do not know how to exist.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Living with someone who cannot tolerate authentic emotions creates an impossible choice between self-honesty and relational safety.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with DBT for emotional dysregulation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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