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When emotional validation conflicts with relationship survival

My therapist says to validate my emotions but when I feel anything other than happiness my husband gets upset and I do not know how to exist.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Living with someone who cannot tolerate authentic emotions creates an impossible choice between self-honesty and relational safety.

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“Where Are You with DBT for emotional dysregulation?”

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