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When self-compassion practices trigger self-attack

My therapist wants me to practice self-compassion but every time I try to be kind to myself it feels fake and makes me want to hurt myself more.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Attempts at self-kindness threaten the internalized critical system that has served as protection against vulnerability and disappointment.

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“Where Are You with Mindfulness as psychological intervention?”

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