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When healthy changes feel like betraying your personality

My therapist wants me to set boundaries because I'm agreeable but every time I try I feel guilty and mean and like I'm betraying who I am.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Growth often requires acting against established personality patterns, creating temporary identity confusion and emotional discomfort.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Personality frameworks — Big Five MBTI Enneagram?”

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