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Scenario

When healthy changes feel like betraying your personality

My therapist wants me to set boundaries because I'm agreeable but every time I try I feel guilty and mean and like I'm betraying who I am.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Growth often requires acting against established personality patterns, creating temporary identity confusion and emotional discomfort.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Personality frameworks — Big Five MBTI Enneagram?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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