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When family traditions become sources of stress

My adult children and I have been gathering for holidays out of obligation more than joy and last Christmas was tense in ways we all felt but didn't name and I think we need to reimagine what family time actually means to us now.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The gap between what family gatherings are supposed to feel like and what they actually feel like can become a source of quiet grief.

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