My adult children and I keep having the same argument about family gatherings - they say I'm too controlling about traditions and logistics, and I feel like I'm the only one who cares enough to make things happen. Every holiday is becoming a negotiation and I'm exhausted, but I also don't want our family to just drift apart.
More people experience this than they realize.
Different generations are struggling to renegotiate power and responsibility while preserving connection.
“Where Are You with Ancestor veneration across traditions?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.