Periagoge
Scenario

When family members have conflicting views of who their loved one really was

My adult daughter and I have been trying to plan my husband's memorial service for two months and we keep getting into fights about what he would have wanted, and I'm realizing we might have known completely different versions of the same person.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Grief is revealing that shared love doesn't guarantee shared understanding, and the difference feels like another loss.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief of a child — the unnatural loss?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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