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Scenario

When mothers and adult daughters can't find the right boundaries

My adult daughter and I keep getting into the same fight where she says I'm too involved in her life and I feel like she shuts me out, and we both walk away hurt every time. We love each other deeply but we can't seem to find the right distance, and I'm worried we're damaging something precious by not knowing how to talk about this better.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are struggling to renegotiate love and autonomy without a roadmap for this new relationship.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Belonging vs. fitting in — the distinction that matters?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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