Periagoge
Scenario

When parents and adult children get trapped in recurring conflict patterns

My adult daughter and I keep having the same fight about her life choices and afterward we both feel terrible but we can't seem to stop falling into this pattern where I give advice she doesn't want and she shuts down in ways that make me worry more.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The harder you grip what you're afraid of losing, the more likely you are to push it away.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Intergenerational trauma — the legacy you break?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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