My adult kids are worried about how much I drink and they've started having conversations about it without me, which I found out about accidentally. I know they're coming from a place of love but I feel ganged up on and they probably feel like I'm not hearing them, and now we're all just walking on eggshells around each other.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love and worry are creating a dynamic where everyone is trying to protect each other from a conversation that needs to happen.
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