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Scenario

When parents disagree about adult children living at home

My adult son moved back home during the pandemic and never left, and my husband and I are handling it completely differently — I want to help him get back on his feet, my husband wants firm boundaries and timelines. Our son can feel the tension between us and it's making everything worse.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Conflicting parenting philosophies that worked when children were young become relationship fractures when the stakes of adult independence are involved.

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