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Scenario

When long-term friendships start feeling performative instead of genuine

My best friend and I have been close for fifteen years but lately when we hang out it feels like we're performing our friendship rather than actually connecting, and I think we both feel it but neither of us knows how to say 'remember when we used to tell each other everything?' without it sounding like an accusation.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are grieving the intimacy they once shared while being afraid that naming the distance will make it permanent.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Cohousing and intentional living?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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