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Scenario

When close friendships become mutually limiting

My best friend and I have been enabling each other's worst habits for years under the guise of unconditional support, and we both know we're holding each other back from growing, but we're afraid that if we stop being each other's refuge from responsibility we might not have anything left.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people have created a dynamic of mutual enabling that feels supportive but prevents authentic growth.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined question — what do I want to leave??”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.