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Scenario

When longtime friendships change after major life transitions

My best friend and I have been inseparable for fifteen years but since she got married last year something has shifted and we both keep pretending everything is the same when it clearly isn't. We used to tell each other everything and now our conversations feel careful and I don't know if this is just what growing up looks like or if we're losing something precious.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are navigating the unspoken grief of a friendship that's evolving beyond its familiar form.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Money and parenting — financial pressure and class?”

Peri

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