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Scenario

When friends have different vacation styles and expectations

My best friend and I have been planning this big trip together for months and now that it's getting close, we're realizing we have completely different ideas about what this vacation should be — she wants to relax and I want to explore everything — and we're both starting to feel anxious about disappointing each other. We keep saying 'whatever you want to do' but neither of us means it and I can feel us both getting weird about the money we've already spent.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that their unspoken assumptions about shared experience don't align, and the weight of investment makes it harder to speak honestly.

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