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When travel planning reveals fundamental differences between friends

My best friend and I have been planning this trip for two years and now that it's finally happening, we're realizing we travel completely differently and every decision is becoming a negotiation. We're both getting resentful and I'm scared we're going to ruin our friendship over logistics.

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Two people are discovering that their friendship hasn't been tested by the stress of shared decision-making and different expectations.

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