My best friend and I have been planning to move in together for months but now that we're actually looking at apartments, we keep finding reasons to delay and I think we're both realizing we want different things but neither of us wants to say it out loud. We've been friends for fifteen years and I'm scared this decision is going to change everything between us.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fear of naming incompatibilities is preventing honest conversation about what you both actually want.
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.