Periagoge
Scenario

When close friends consider living together but have different expectations

My best friend and I have been planning to move in together for months but now that we're actually looking at apartments, we keep finding reasons to delay and I think we're both realizing we want different things but neither of us wants to say it out loud. We've been friends for fifteen years and I'm scared this decision is going to change everything between us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of naming incompatibilities is preventing honest conversation about what you both actually want.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Cohousing and intentional living?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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