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Scenario

When friends consider moving in together but fear ruining the relationship

My best friend and I have been planning to move in together for months but now that we're actually looking at places, we keep finding reasons why each apartment won't work and I think we're both scared we'll ruin our friendship but neither of us wants to say it out loud.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of losing what you have can prevent you from creating what you want together.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Intergenerational trauma — the legacy you break?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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