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Scenario

When close friends realize they have different expectations about living together

My best friend and I have been planning to move in together for months but now that it's actually happening I'm realizing we have completely different ideas about money, cleanliness, and having people over. We keep avoiding the hard conversations because we don't want to hurt each other's feelings but I can feel resentment building already.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who love each other are discovering that proximity reveals incompatibilities they never had to face before.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Neighborhood and place-based belonging?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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