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When friends want to collaborate but fear ruining the friendship

My best friend and I have been talking about starting a creative project together for three years now — we have notebooks full of ideas and endless late-night conversations about it — but every time we try to actually begin, one of us finds a reason to postpone. We both want this badly but we're also both terrified of what happens if we try and it changes our friendship.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The safety of dreaming together is being threatened by the vulnerability required to actually create together.

Ideas that help explain it
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