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When siblings have different approaches to caregiving

My brother and I are both caring for our aging mom and he keeps making decisions without consulting me, but then expects me to help execute them, and I don't know how to call him out without making Mom's situation worse.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are trying to love the same person well but their different styles are creating conflict that threatens the very care they're trying to provide.

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