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Scenario

When siblings disagree on elderly parent care approaches

My brother and I are both taking care of Mom as her dementia gets worse and we have completely different approaches — he wants to hire help and I think we should do it ourselves — and every conversation turns into a fight about money and guilt and what Dad would have wanted.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Caregiving has become the arena where old family dynamics and different values are playing out under enormous stress.

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