Periagoge
Scenario

How siblings navigate unequal caregiving roles

My brother and I are both taking care of Mom but he lives across the country and sends money while I'm here doing everything else, and we both feel like the other one doesn't understand the sacrifice we're making. Every conversation about her care turns into a fight about who's doing more.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people love the same person but cannot see past their own burden to recognize the other's.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Maintaining friendships across distance and time?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.