My brother and I are executors of our parents' estate and they left us with the impossible task of deciding how much should go to our sister who's struggled with addiction — they said 'use your judgment' but we have completely different ideas about what will help versus enable her.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love someone differently must make decisions about money that could either support or harm someone they both want to protect.
“Where Are You with The ethics of inheritance — how much to leave??”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.