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When siblings disagree about delivering unsent letters

My brother and I are going through Mom's things and we keep finding letters she never sent to people she hurt, and now we're arguing about whether we should deliver them posthumously or if that would just cause more pain.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The weight of someone else's unfinished emotional business becomes a burden shared unequally between those left behind.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The letters and journals you leave?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.