My brother and I are the only ones left to take care of Mom and he lives across the country and thinks we should move her to assisted living while I think we can still manage her at home. Every conversation about it turns into an argument about who's doing more and who understands her better and meanwhile Mom is getting more confused and we're running out of time to decide together.
More people experience this than they realize.
Caregiving decisions reveal how differently we love the same person, and how our own fears shape what we think is best.
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.