My brother and I both left our hometown twenty years ago but now Mom needs more help and we're trying to figure out how to care for her from a distance — except he thinks we should move her closer to one of us and I think we should hire local help and neither of us wants to be the one who disrupts her whole life.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people who love the same person are discovering their different values about sacrifice, control, and what constitutes good care.
“Where Are You with Parenting through your own mental health challenges?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.