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Scenario

When siblings inherit shared space with different visions for honoring memory

My brother and I inherited our dad's workshop and all his tools after he died, and we both want to keep using the space but we have totally different visions for it. I want to preserve it exactly like he left it and he wants to update everything and make it functional for actual projects. We haven't been able to talk about it without getting emotional.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people grieving the same loss are discovering that they need different things from the same physical space in order to feel connected to who they've lost.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with LGBTQ+ chosen family tradition?”

Peri

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