My brother and I promised our mom we'd never put her in a nursing home, but she's been living with me for three years now and it's destroying my marriage, and he thinks I should just 'figure it out' because he sends money every month. We both love her but we're not talking honestly about what any of us actually need.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are carrying an impossible promise in completely different ways, and the weight of unspoken resentment is threatening both the care and the relationship.
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