My childhood best friend and I survived a lot of hard stuff together growing up but now in our forties she keeps bringing up old grievances and hurts like they happened yesterday, and I don't know how to honor our history while also moving forward.
More people experience this than they realize.
The very shared history that bonds two people also contains unhealed wounds that resist both forgetting and resolution.
“Where Are You with Chronic loneliness vs. situational loneliness?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.