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Scenario

How friend groups navigate unspoken judgments about life choices

My childhood friends and I all stayed in our hometown and we used to make fun of people who 'never left' but now we're those people and when we hang out there's this weird undercurrent of judgment about whether we're settling or being authentic to our roots. None of us talks about it directly but it's always there.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The stories friends tell themselves about their shared choices can become a prison that no one knows how to escape.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiving parents?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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