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When long friendships struggle to evolve with who you've become

My childhood friends and I are all in our thirties now and when we get together it feels like we're all performing older versions of who we used to be instead of showing up as who we actually are. We have this shared history that's so important to all of us but I don't know if we actually like each other anymore as the people we've become.

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