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When longtime friendships outgrow their original foundation

My closest friend from college and I have been growing apart for years as our lives went in different directions, and now when we do talk it feels forced and nostalgic rather than real — but neither of us wants to acknowledge that we might not actually be compatible as friends anymore.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are clinging to a connection that sustained them in one season of life but may not have what it takes to grow with them into the next.

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