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When longtime friendships outgrow their original form

My college friend group still gets together twice a year but we're all in our forties now and it's started to feel forced — like we're performing a friendship that made sense twenty years ago but doesn't quite fit who we've become. Nobody wants to be the one to suggest we stop.

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