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Scenario

When longtime friend groups outgrow their shared history

My college friend group still gets together twice a year but we've all changed so much that we spend most of the time reminiscing about who we used to be instead of connecting about who we are now. It feels like we're all performing our old selves and I wonder if we're holding onto something that's already gone.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sometimes the weight of shared history becomes heavier than the connection it was meant to preserve.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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