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Scenario

When longtime friendships lose authenticity as life circumstances change

My college friends and I try to get together once a year but it's become this performance of how well we're all doing, and I miss the realness we used to have but I don't know how to get back to that when we've all become these curated versions of ourselves.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The armor we wear to protect ourselves from judgment can also protect us from connection.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Intergenerational trauma — the legacy you break?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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