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Scenario

When friends' partners create moral conflicts in long-term relationships

My college roommate and I have been close for fifteen years but since she got married her husband makes comments that feel racist and she either doesn't notice or doesn't say anything. I don't know if our friendship can survive this but I also don't know how to bring it up without potentially losing her completely.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sometimes loving someone means confronting them about things that might end everything between you.

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Rabia
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