Periagoge
Scenario

When lifelong friends discover authenticity gaps in their shared history

My college roommate and I have been writing letters to each other for twenty years and she just suggested we compile them into something meaningful — maybe for our kids, maybe for others — but I realize I've been performing a version of myself in those letters and I don't know how to tell her that without destroying what we've built.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire to leave something meaningful behind reveals the performative layers that have quietly shaped even your most honest relationships.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined life as legacy?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.