My cousins and I are all dealing with our grandmother's declining health, but we live in different cities and have different relationships with her, and we can't agree on how much we should each be sacrificing to spend time with her while we still can.
More people experience this than they realize.
Geographic distance and emotional proximity don't align, creating competing claims about who owes what to someone everyone loves differently.
“Where Are You with Ubuntu — I am because we are?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.