My dad and I are both trying to take care of my mom who has dementia, but he's still pretending everything is mostly normal while I think we need to make bigger changes, and we can't have the conversation because it feels like giving up on her.
More people experience this than they realize.
Protecting the person you love has become a disagreement about what protection means.
“Where Are You with Grandparents raising grandchildren?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.