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When extended family doesn't understand your child's disability

My daughter has cerebral palsy and my mom keeps making comments about how 'back in her day' kids just tried harder, and my sister thinks I should just ignore it but I'm tired of pretending it doesn't hurt. We're all supposed to gather for the holidays and I don't know how to handle this without causing family drama.

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A parent is caught between protecting their child's dignity and preserving family relationships when generational attitudes clash with disability realities.

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