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Scenario

When divorced parents disagree about supporting their mixed-race child's identity development

My daughter is mixed-race and my ex-wife and I are struggling to figure out how to help her navigate her identity when we live in different neighborhoods now and have different perspectives on race ourselves. Every conversation about her hair, her friends, what schools to consider, becomes this loaded discussion about which parent understands her identity better.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that their child's complex identity amplifies their own differences in ways that make co-parenting feel like a referendum on who belongs where.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The hyphenated identity and belonging?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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