My elderly mom has been having memory issues and my sister and I disagree about how much help she actually needs, and Mom herself keeps insisting she's fine, and we're all dancing around the real conversation we need to have.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fear of naming what's happening is preventing you from making decisions that serve everyone's actual needs.
“Where Are You with Adoptive parenting?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.